Funnily enough, for most of us in India, the Durex ring is our first introduction to the world of pleasure toys. But at MyMuse, we take that experience up a notch (or 10). Our MyMuse massagers are all beginner-friendly but there are a few key differences to consider:

Pulse - is our best-selling massager. It is sleek, has 5 speeds, and gives targeted vibrations

Palm - has an ergonomic curved shape. It is perfect for partnered play or to get into some interesting positions

Breeze - is a suction massager. It does not vibrate but mimics the mouth

Groove is an internal+external massager with a flexible tip for exploration

My personal favourite is Groove, but to each their own.

Sharing is definitely caring when it comes to sex!

Start by exploring each other's erogenous zones. In my opinion, you can use any of MyMuse’s massagers for partnered play. With something like Breeze or Pulse massager - you can use them to target your partner’s sweet spots - the neck, the nipples, clit.

With a flexible massager like Palm or Groove - you’ll be able to position between you and your partner during sex for maximum pleasure. Or, try mutual masturbation using different massagers. Have one of you take control and use the massager on the other person while they're tied up, blindfolded, or both.

Looking to join the MyMuse Mile High Club, eh? Well, fear not my dear, all of our massagers including are TSA-approved.

- First things first, Drain the battery and toss 'em in your carry-on confidently.
- But don't pack 'em in your checked luggage because lithium batteries ain't allowed down there.
- Now, when you hit security, just keep your massager in its pouch and plonk it on the tray.
- Just tell them it's a body massager because that's exactly what it is!

*If you’re crossing international waters, please look up the custom and immigration rules.

Oh, darling, let's debunk some myths here. Who said every man wants the woman-on-top position? Let's not jump to conclusions. However, if you're eager to become a master at it, practice makes perfect.

- Experiment with positions and angles

- Practice with a pillow or massagers like Pulse or Palm

- Speak up and communicate with your partner
.
And if you're curious about squirting, we've got just the thing for you, check out our blog - Learn How To Squirt & Make WAP Your Reality!

I understand that oral sex can be intimidating, especially if you're new to it. But with a little bit of practice and communication, you'll be good!
- Start by flattening your tongue and lapping the clitoris in an up-down motion.
- Lick the area around the clitoral hood & the clit
- Use your fingers to spread her vulva and rub those outer lips
- Try the combination of licking and fingering.
- Tease her thighs and nipples, too
If you're still too daunted, you can always start by using a suction massager like Breeze that mimics the mouth.

Looks like you’ve got a sweet tooth 🍦 Putting whipped cream on your lady’s bits might seem like a sweet idea, but it's a recipe for disaster. Her sensitive genital area deserves better than harmful bacteria and chemicals that can cause irritation, infections, and other health problems.

But don't worry, there are plenty of other erogenous zones on her body where you can slather on that cream – the pubic mound, thighs, stomach, nipples, neck, you name it! So, let your imagination run wild and experiment with other areas that can take the heat.

Darling, let me break it down for you. Wanting to play out a fantasy of forced sex while flicking the bean is totally normal. It's called consensual non-consent (CNC), and it's a common BDSM kink where you want power play but only on your own terms and with your own consent. So, as long as you're not hurting anyone or yourself, go ahead and indulge in your little fantasy.

Remember, it's your body, your rules. Just be sure to communicate any limits and boundaries with any future partners, so they don't get the wrong idea.

Let's get one thing straight- sex isn't just about penetration. Bondage, oral sex, and sex toys are all part of the fun, too! So, don't discount those experiences you've had.

Now, if you want to break out of this rut, you gotta communicate with your partner. It's not as sexy as blindfolds and handcuffs, but it's necessary. Sit down with them and talk about your concerns and ask how you can reignite the passion. Maybe try some new toys or activities to spice things up, or even schedule some sexy time.

But seriously, talk it out first. And if all fails, don’t be afraid to get some professional help!

Firstly, you might want to encourage your partner to see a doctor to rule out any physical conditions. Secondly, consider exploring other sexual activities such as oral sex or using sex toys to enhance your experience. Thirdly, be patient and understanding - this can be a sensitive topic for some guys.

Remember, communication is key and you can work together to find a solution that suits both of you!

Feeling a little anxious about getting it on? Totally understandable! But let me tell you- sex is supposed to feel good & safe.

- Don't be afraid to talk to your partner about your fears and worries.
- Sex doesn’t mean penetration, it refers to all things pleasurable like oral play, kissing, outercourse, using massagers, etc. So, I’d suggest defining sex in more ways than one.
- Penetration is not supposed to hurt, provided you engage in foreplay and feel aroused. So, try to know your body better on your own time & share the same with your partner.
- Use lube to keep things sliding swiftly!

If you still find it difficult, you can reach out to a doctor or a therapist.

Although Groove is not designed specifically for the prostate, we've received feedback from some users that it can be effectively used for this purpose. Here are some things you should keep in mind before starting this adventure-

- Its long handle and slim neck make it easy to maneuver.
- However, the top of the Groove is flexible rather than stiff which might not be too comfortable for some people.
- Also, it doesn’t have a flared base like traditional butt plugs to control its penetrative power.

The bottom line is- it can be used as a prostate massager but it should be done carefully.

Hey, I’m sorry to hear that you’re having trouble with penetration.
While mild pain is common for some folks, extreme discomfort and pain should not occur while penetrating a finger. Here are a few probable reasons-
- You are not aroused enough
- You have an infection down there
- You might have a medical condition like vaginismus and need treatment.
In the first case, you need to spend more time arousing yourself and use a good water-based lubricant like Glide. But if you have an infection or continued pain, you should talk to a healthcare provider who can assess your symptoms and provide a proper diagnosis.

As I always say, the journey matters more than the destination. So, I suggest you focus on enjoying the amazing sensations during the self-love session. That way, you are bound to reach the destination O quite easily.
• Find out your turn-ons: You should know what you like in the boudoir like reading or watching something erotic or letting your imagination run wild.
• Experiment: You can experiment with different pressures, rhythms, and techniques down there.
• Get wet: Lube reduces friction and makes your touch feel smoother.
• Get some help: If your hand is failing to do its best, you can try using a massager like Breeze suction massager.

If there’s one thing sexier than communication, it is sexy communication, AKA dirty talking!
Here are some things you can say to keep the mood going:
"I want you to use your hands/mouth/toys/etc."
"I've been thinking about this all day."
"I want you to take me harder/faster/slower/etc."
"You make me feel so good."
"I love it when you do that."
"That feels amazing."
And remember, the key to great dirty talking is confidence. And as the great Maddy Perez from Euphoria once said, “The thing about confidence is no one knows if it’s real”. So, say what you wanna say with a touch of confidence and sensuality.

Oh, dear! I love how you’re being safe and responsible. To answer your question-
It is safe to give and take oral, provided that you and your partner have taken the STI test and don’t engage with other people.

But if you’re hooking up with different people, you should always use protection because such infections can be transmitted via oral play.

Additionally, make sure you’re communicating well and doing everything consensually so it's a good experience for everyone involved!

Using massagers by yourself is a personal choice that's not just for experienced lovebirds or people of a certain age. Who knows, you might even end up experimenting with your desires, and even spicing up your future bedroom adventures. Let me share some easy-peasy options for you-
Melt - These specially-made candles melt into stunning massage oil upon being lit. You can use them for temperature play or a simple massage
Pulse - It is our best-selling massager. It is sleek, has 5 speeds, and gives the most powerful, targeted vibrations
Breeze - It is a suction massager. This means it does not vibrate, but instead gives you pleasurable sensations that mimic the mouth

Sounds like you’re ready to take your play time to the next level. Yes, of course, you can use lube with the Breeze suction massager. I always say, wetter is better—and you’re about to find out why ;).
Just make sure that you use a water-based lube like Glide!

Pulse and Palm are two tools that everyone should have in their arsenal, especially if they’re looking to level up their self-love routine. Here’s how you can use them:

If targeted stimulation is your jam, Pulse is what you should use. You can run its powerful tip all over your erogenous zones.

Palm is great if you like broader stimulation and a more rounded vibe. You can use its smooth sides to massage your shoulder & calves while the little nub-like tip can be used for targeted areas.

There’s really no wrong way to use Palm or Pulse—except that they can’t be used internally. They both lack an attachment or a flared base and that’s where Groove comes to your rescue.

Think of her bun or V like a rubber band that can expand to fit different sizes and lengths! The average one is about 3 to 4 inches (7.5 to 10 centimeters) long. But when things start heating up, it's like a magical portal that can expand to accommodate a sausage or massager like Groove massager!

Remember- it's not about going for the deepest dive possible, but rather exploring what feels good for both partners and focusing on mutual pleasure and connection.

First off, it's essential to remember that everyone's body is unique, and what works for one person may not work for another. So, don't give up just yet!

Explore different techniques, positions, and sensations to find what works for you. For example, you might want to try different rhythms, pressures, or even incorporate a massager like Breeze to mimic oral fun. Next, guide them gently, sharing what you enjoy and what might bring you pleasure. Lastly, keep in mind that pleasure isn't just about physical sensations. If you're not feeling the connection or desire in the moment, it can affect your overall experience.

I suggest you focus on enjoying the amazing sensations and connecting with him. That way, you are bound to reach the destination O quite easily. And along the way, here are some things you should try-

Find out your turn-ons: Find out what get you hot like an erotic novel or a fantasy and share it with your partner.

Experiment: Try changing up your routine. The longer the foreplay, the more chances you get off.

Get wet:Lube makes everything better! It reduces friction, makes every touch feel smoother, and a lot more pleasurable.

Sneak in some help: I understand that folks at your place might not like pleasure props but that doesn’t mean you can’t get any. You should check out our Palm or Pulse massager as they have discreet designs.

Now, when it comes to exploring new horizons with toys, communication is key, as always. Lucky for you, I've got a few tips to help you navigate this conversation smoothly.

Reassurance: First things first, reassure your partner that he's doing an outstanding job and incorporating massagers is not a sign of dissatisfaction

Timing: You could start by mentioning an interesting article you read or a friend's experience. Gauge his reaction and openness to the idea. Emphasize how it's about exploring new sensations.

Bonus Tip: Remind him that his hands, skills, and connection are still the most important ingredients in the pleasure recipe.

Lastly, make sure he knows that you're open to exploring his desires and fantasies as well.

First of all, let me assure you - you're not alone. Surprising as it may be, most V-owners don’t get off from penetration alone and need clitoral play. Our bodies are all unique and we all have our own preferences.

When it comes to feeling the same with your partner, communication is key. It's also worth exploring different positions, angles, and techniques to see if there's something that enhances your pleasure.

As for the best massager for you, here are some that you can try:

Breeze - It mimics the mouth and offers 10 different intensities for you to try.

Groove - The flexible neck and the ergonomic design help with all those hard-to-reach spots. Use it to show your partner exactly what you like and how you like it.

Well, PME or PE or Premature Ejaculation is when you turn into a sprinter who finishes the race before the gun even goes off. It is a very common issue and it's nothing to be ashamed of. So, why does it happen?

Psychological reasons: Stress, anxiety, or the fear of not living up to expectations.
Physical reasons: Overly sensitive equipment or hormonal imbalances.

And sometimes it's just a combination of factors. But overcoming PE is totally possible! You can start by talking openly with your partner. There are also techniques you can try, like the "stop-start" method, where you hit the pause button during the act to build up stamina.

You can also try certain numbing sprays and creams or kegel exercises. The best option would be to get medical help if it’s a persistent problem for you.

Oh, it's so good to see that you're taking care of yourself and recognizing when it's time to let go of old toys that are no longer functional. Here are a few suggestions on how to go about disposing them off:

Check with your neighbourhood recycling centre if they accept electronic devices. Remember to remove any batteries or rechargeable components before recycling.

If recycling options aren't readily available, disassemble it (if possible) and discard it discreetly. Wrap it in a newspaper or place it in a non-transparent bag before throwing it in the trash to maintain your privacy and to prevent others from accidentally stumbling upon it.

Using Jack is simple. While there is no wrong way to use it, here are the basics of how you can get started-

Stretch it out: On the first use, if Jack feels a bit tight, just stretch it out to fit perfectly.

Lube it up: Add a water-based lube like Glide Water to the inside, and/or directly onto your desired body part.

Stroke it out: Insert your member into the opening of Jack, and gently begin stroking the way you like. Experiment with different pressures and speeds or invert it.

Get clean: Invert and wash Jack with soap and water before and after use. Make sure that you pat it and let it air dry before you store it in its pouch.

Hope that your procedure went well and that you are in good health!
Remember that I'm not a doctor, but I can offer some general insights. It's quite common for sensations to change after circumcision, as your little buddy is adjusting to its new look and feel. However, if you're concerned, talk to a professional.

There are plenty of other ways to explore and indulge in intimacy with your girlfriend-
- Communication to find more untapped fantasies
- Experimentation with different props, role play, positions, etc.
- Focusing on other erogenous zones.
- Don't forget about the power of foreplay, setting the mood, and exploring.

So, don't hesitate to explore alternative paths to pleasure. There’s a whole world of pleasure out there!